Why did the girl delete the VK page. How to delete a Vkontakte page? You can't get someone back or get revenge on them by looking at their photos on a social network.

Time to retire from social media, trust me! Do not believe? My life changed when I left several social networks, and began to use VK exclusively for access to TV shows, reviews and music. I got more time, which I again began to spend on good literature, films, toys and some hobbies. I spent more time in the gym and stopped taking my phone with me to training. And you know ... I didn’t even break, I just didn’t take the phone to the hall, nothing changed, except for the appearance of a slight halo of freedom around me. Last December, I retired from Facebook, where I talked with people from other countries. Our communication was not productive, just “Hello, how are you?” I figured it out and deleted the page. After analyzing the situation now, I realized that life is getting better. So why should you retire from all social networks, leaving only fakes for music and video?

1. Time

There was a joke on the network that if you get out of bed in the morning and run to check your Twitter, then you cannot be saved. In fact, we spend a LOT of time on what is called "surfing social networks." It's not bad if you have an account on one social network, but if there are many? You tweet, flip through Instagram, watch the blogs of your friends, answer the VKontakte dude. Smartphones have made these procedures quick, but they are still wasting time, and they are doing great! After I retired from social networks, any conversation on Skype or ICQ (yes, I have one) at work becomes painful for me, because it seems very long and not on the case. I cannot completely withdraw from everywhere: work does not allow. But the fact that I have freed up a lot of time and learned how to manage it is a fact.

2. Girls

It's easy to get acquainted with a girl on social networks, but the time spent talking to her, getting her out on the first date, and then on another one, at a cost much more than the time that you can spend when you get to know girls in ordinary places. It is much faster and more pleasant to meet girls in cafes, bars, clubs and at thematic meetings.

3. Employers

You know, employers actually view their jobseekers and employees on social media. Seriously, some employers and colleagues will gladly visit your VKontakte page to see what you are. If you are monitored at work how much time you spend in social networks and how often you succumb to the temptation to read the news feed, instead of working, your business is bad. Nobody wants to have an Internet-addicted employee, though ... They are all like that now!

4. Friends

Why do you need a website to communicate with friends? We no longer remember how joyful it was to meet each other, because we discuss all pressing problems with friends over the network. Often our dialogue is meaningless because we exchange pictures and courtesies without any kind of eye contact. Better to call on Skype, by God, at least you can see the person! Now long correspondence with friends makes me incredibly tired. It would be much more pleasant for me to chat with friends over a glass of good beer, but the problem is that friends still prefer to talk over the network. And I have almost forgotten how to communicate like that. It's unpleasant! I, of course, will not drive about the need for personal communication, but no one canceled a video chat or a Skype call. I never thought that I would declare that communication on Skype is more sincere than communication on Facebook or VKontakte.

5. Content

In social networks, you can find interesting groups with various useful information. Groups, unfortunately, deteriorate pretty quickly. They can start their existence with excellent quality content about historical facts and other troubles, and then degenerate into collections interesting facts in the spirit of "Did you know that Peter I did not drink tea with sugar ..." ... My classmates take pictures of their big pregnant bellies and post photos of their children, re-read stupid recipes for salads with mayonnaise. Friends post unfunny jokes; someone is actively collecting likes under the announcement of a cat that is looking for owners. And that's it! People do not post photos so that they are stored somewhere, they post them only to be liked, approved by virtual currency. Girls post their photos to receive messages: "Marinochka, you are so sexy!" People who have self-esteem issues need social approval - that's the only reason for this behavior and the overwhelming amount of shit in the news feed.

6. Meetings

I heard from one dude that he was planning his weekend with the help of Facebook and Contact. He watched where the concerts are now, where the apartment owners are, in which cafe they are going to play "Mafia" and so on and so forth. You can find out about the concerts on the poster sites of your city. If you have the necessary contacts, phone numbers of friends and event organizers, you can easily find out what events are expected in the near future in your city. Sometimes though, I'll admit, social media can come in handy. For example, if you absolutely do not know where to go. But I think you can find something to do. When I had a VKontakte account, I didn’t pay much attention to the meetings, anyway I don’t attend them!

7. News feed or updates

The worst thing about any social network is the update feed, which can make you spend hours staring at all sorts of nonsense crap. Even if you come across useful information that you want to remember, after reading it you will forget it with a 99 percent probability. Information can be meaningless. Information is often unnecessary, in our information age 90 percent of all information you receive is of no value to you. Trust us dude! Do you seriously need all these funny pictures, demotivators, beautiful quotes taken out of context, political texts from blogs? This is meaningless information! There are sites for funny pictures, for example ours. When you leave the networks, you look at our photo selections!

8. Low information content of messages and poor layout

There is no way to post more or less beautifully designed articles on social networks. Or articles designed in such a way that they are pleasant to read. A relatively small VKontakte article reads much slower than an article on a website. I am sure that you never read to the end large articles on any social network, because there are “a lot of bukaf”. It is much more difficult to find out about what is happening in the world from social networks. When I had social media accounts last year, there was a major plane crash. Everyone was talking about her, and I wasn’t dreaming, because I wasn’t subscribed to any newsgroup. And are you signed?

9. Opinions

The most annoying thing on social networks is the statuses and messages from those who want to ask someone's opinion. Even a simple status “I want to eat something tasty” is an involuntary interest in someone else's opinion. And such statuses appear all the time! Someone writes about their fears; someone writes how he loves his boyfriend or his cat; someone is wondering if a new piece of clothing suits him. All these people are madly dependent on the opinions of others and on the positive assessments expressed by strangers. At the moment, I truly, to the core, hate these people who share their lives on social media in order to get a positive assessment of their actions.

If you accidentally or deliberately deleted your own page yourself, and then changed your mind and decided to restore it, or someone hacked you and, having received unauthorized access, deleted your personal account, then it can be returned and renewed within 7 months, starting from the moment of deletion.

What to do if the VK page is deleted?

To renew your account data, you need to perform several steps:

1. Go to the site of the VK social network.
2. Use your old data (login and password) to log in.
3. Write down the captcha code, which is shown in the form of numbers and letters.
4. In the open window, click on the hyperlink with the inscription "Restore".

If more than 7 months have passed since the VK page was deleted, what should I do?

In the event that the period for renewing the page has expired, to restore it, you will need to contact the technical support service of the social network or write a letter with a request to the email address [email protected] The likelihood that you will be helped is small, but it is still there.

The data recovery process may take some time as the data is retrieved from the archives and then restored. In addition, the technical support service may require confirmation of your rights to the page in order to make sure that it really belongs to you.

Why could they delete the VKontakte page?

• for sending spam (diverse invitations to groups or events that may pose a potential threat to your computer);
• for obscene language (swearing, rudeness in public and groups);
• for an avatar (main photo of the page) that offends someone's religious or Political Views, promotes violence, is pornographic, etc .;
• for personal information that is offensive;

Your account can be deleted for various reasons. On the social network, you can welcome to any page from which spam is sent, as well as various types of obscene, pornographic or shocking materials. With a large number of complaints, moderators can block you.
There is always an opportunity to restore your personal page, unblock and return under your leadership.

Social networks have become part of our life and require more and more serious treatment. Someone gets fired for posting on Facebook, and another was denied a promising position because of a cheeky tweet. For a thoughtless phrase, carelessly published in a social network, you can really sit down.

However, we are adults. We can and must be held accountable for our actions. What about kids? Is it worth involving them on the social web before they can decide for themselves whether to be in this digital world or not?

We invite you to think about the reasoning of Kim Shendrow - a person who has personally faced the consequences of a careless attitude towards social networks.

Some will say that I bad mother... Every day I share the life and work of my children with hundreds of strangers. There are 1549 people on my list of “friends”, most of whom I have never spoken to or even seen. These so-called "friends" could tell you what my children eat, how they are doing at school, what they love and hate.

Before my kids grew up and learned to articulate their resentment about my actions in the past, capturing moments of life on Facebook seemed like something good. Now, as children get older, their anger and resentment grows stronger. It's just creepy to me. Everything goes to the fact that sooner or later I still have to delete my account.

Every time I post another photo with my children, where they are jumping into the pool or sleeping curled up on the couch, I violate the inviolability of their privacy, and Facebook (and subsequently the entire Internet) will not forget this. Will never forget.

However, there are more general reasons why you should delete your social media accounts. Consider this list:

1. Facebook makes you think your life sucks

People post only positive moments of their lives on social media. Failures and disappointments remain behind the scenes. As a result, looking at your friends' feed, you may get the impression that their lives are entirely made up of only successes, joy and accomplishments, and yours is not. This is a dangerous illusion.

2. Mom won't let me talk to strangers

But Facebook's friend search algorithm thinks the other way around. He wants strangers to be your friends. The more, the better. Every day the social network tries to slip me people who are “friends of my friends”. This stream is diluted by people from my past - those many of whom I would like to forget. It also contains my cousin, who passed away 2 years ago.

3. Your boss reads you

These are the times when posting on Facebook could end up losing your current job and losing your chance to get jobs in many promising places in the future. In Foxboro, USA, a man was fired for posting a photo with a swastika painted on the body of a drunk friend. There, teachers are fired for taking pictures of them drinking alcohol. One venerable female teacher was fired for refusing to remove current students from her friendships. Even if you shield your posts from specific personalities, your foe can whisper your messages and photos to your boss.

4. Your Facebook “friends” don't give a damn about your little joys and events

Seriously, there are hardly many individuals on your friend list who were really curious to know that your kitten is finally litter-trained. You need to be able to filter things based on reasons for being published. Dads, moms, stop posting photos and events with kids when there are awkward moments. In the future, this can be used for ridicule and mockery of your children.

5. You will stop messing around at work

Well, or at least you will spend a little less time on idleness. It's no secret that Facebook is a great time waster. In the United States, such gatherings on social networks during working hours result in $ 28 billion in losses to employers annually.

6. The consequences of your revelations

There is such a mood when you want to admit some mistake or failure. And you write about it on Facebook. And this is read by friends, acquaintances, neighbors, colleagues. And they remember this at a personal meeting. And you will see it in their eyes, and maybe you will hear it behind your back. What makes people deliberately belittle the qualities of their personality in the eyes of others?

Everything written here within Facebook is applicable to any other social service. With a sufficient level of insanity, the social network may well spoil life. What do you think makes people behave this way in a digital environment? What reasons made you abandon social networks or reconsider the format of interaction with them?

By myself, I am a kind person, and I do not wish any harm to anyone, I met a good guy on the Internet, it seems like we liked a friend, we talk for a long time, he admitted that he fell in love with me, but I also have feelings for him, but he is very rarely online , and I began to forget about him, you still need to live a real life, a friend introduced me to one guy, talked about two days after he called for a walk, just walked as friends, after a walk he offered to meet, I agreed, I don’t feel great feelings, but when I wrote the one who by correspondence, I did not lie, told everything, he used to tell me that he was looking for a girl who would not go to another, I did not even expect from myself, I completely forgot about him, and I want to return everything back, but if I return it then again I will be alone, so to speak, no one will hug, will not press to my heart, will not say affectionate words, it hurts, I hate myself, I'm a terrible person, I betrayed him, I don't know what to do, today he said that everyone loves me exactly, and deleted his page, and the thought of Suicide came to me, of course they were and earlier, but not so strong, today I decided that if he does not restore the page until next Thursday, I will die, I don’t know whom to choose, there is no way out, but I’ve already made a decision about death
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Vita, age: 15/01/2014

Feedback:

Dear Vita. What if, instead of a guy, your grandfather writes to you ??? Or a grown-up married man? Or the guy is real, but in real life he has a girlfriend, and on the network he is looking for some emotions, which, perhaps, he lacks when communicating with her. The latter option happens very often, trust me!
Until you meet in person and chat for a sufficient amount of time, you "love" only the image that you have created in your head. And because of the image, which, perhaps, is not at all who it appears to be - to commit suicide ???
Pay attention to the other, real guy. Walk, meet, communicate and maybe you will understand that your real happiness is in him.
Do not get carried away, Vita, by correspondence. This is a departure into the world of illusions, from which it is difficult to get out. And even harder. when these illusions crash against reality. And on the other side of the screen is not at all who you imagined.
Social networks are good in one case: when you know a guy in real life, but you are embarrassed to approach. Then VKontakte can come to the rescue. And in all other cases, IMHO, you shouldn't get acquainted there.
Everything will be fine!

Olga, age: 26/01/2014

Vita, good afternoon!
The image on the other side of the screen is always the unknown. Agree, before you take such a step as to step into the unknown (death) because of another unknown (the image on the social network), you need to carefully weigh everything.
So, first, will you get rid of the pain? Of course not.
The first argument is that a very small percentage of those who try to commit suicide achieve their goal. Agree, living, for example, being confined to a wheelchair is not too tempting.
The second argument is that you cannot be sure that death will bring the desired peace of mind, a kind of sleep without sleep. Research convincingly proves one thing: A person's consciousness lives with the body, but does NOT die with the body. So, instead of the desired peace, you will get an endless nightmare . Vita, did you have nightmares? Of course, you remember how bad you were in a dream and how YOU wanted to get out of there. But there is nowhere to escape from death !!! So?
The third argument. The person who wrote to you may simply be looking for entertainment. Sometimes uncles of 60 years old write to adolescents with not very good goals. you do not know what awaits you?
Excuse me, Vita, but this whole idea is clearly not worth it.
May God give you strength and good luck !!!

Moonwalker, age: 32 / 05/01/2014

Dear Vita, you should not succumb to such manipulations - 1) after all, you did not promise him anything and do not owe him anything (he is not your husband and not the ONLY person in the world who can give you what you want, believe me, I went through all this at your age ) 2) you do not know what God has prepared for you for the next turn, maybe you will meet already in real life such loving person, create a strong family and be happy. 3) who is worth your tears ??? and life ????? You don’t owe ANYONE, you are a free person, beloved child of the Gosopod, if this guy decided to take offense and delete the page - these are his problems, I’ll tell you as a guy - if a guy does this, he’s probably not himself or wants to use you, otherwise why is he trying to manipulate you so much ?????? Love - does not happen suddenly once and hit. Love is caring for a person, when you are afraid to even offend him or embarrass him, and how did he take care of you, leaving you in such a position ???? rather the opposite, so you certainly don't owe him anything !!! Vitochka remember that "love does not seek its own," so if young people talk to you about "love", you will have a good look at what can be disguised behind this word, appreciate yourself!

Pa, age: 23/01/2014

Vita, understand, you did not betray anyone! Correspondence over the network is not a relationship, especially since he is clearly not interested in constant communication and communication in real life. Does he say that he loves? Somehow it doesn't stick then ...
You thought of a lot about him, brought him closer to the ideal, and now you look at a real guy and think: "No, my ideal is better." And where he? Why not next to you? why not worried about you?
You're only 15 yet! Is it worth depriving yourself of everything that could be in your life because of an illusory relationship? After all, you yourself very correctly noted "no one will embrace, will not press to the heart, will not say affectionate words." This is true. He just plays with his and your feelings, and you are ready to give your life. This is despite the fact that even people who have lived for many years in marriage can go their separate ways. They do, yes, but they live.
Not to mention that it really may not be a nice guy, but a grandfather who decided to play love in his old age.
Real love is not like that, understand. It does not demand, play, reproach, frame. This is a light, uplifting feeling. To love means to accept, to wish for the best for a person. If your pen friend loved you, as he says, he would be there or wish you happiness with someone else. And I certainly wouldn't want you dead. You will not solve anything for her, you will just stupidly end your life. I wish you happiness and true love!

Maria, age: 25/01/2014

Vita, dear, please do not play the game "I will die, I will not die", these are not toys. You are no longer a child, you need to grow up, and understand that God gave you life as an extraordinary, sacred gift! Many people to stay alive, you know what they are doing? And mothers whose children die of cancer, ask them what is the value of human life? Have you thought about your mom? Will she have to think until the end of her life that she did something wrong, get up and go to bed every evening in insane melancholy ?! And father, everyone else? Because of some guy whom you haven't really seen or heard how they wrote correctly here who is most likely bald and fat 60 years old, or maybe it's a woman at all? By the way, my sister on classmates created a fake profile with a handsome guy, and began to write from him to her rival. And then she fell in love with this nonexistent guy. And there were even pictures, my sister pulled them from the Internet somewhere.
You are no longer a child, you are a girl, and it is time for you to understand that you cannot joke with such things as "I will die, I will not die." And you must take a responsible attitude to your life, cherish this Sacred Gift like the apple of your eye.
And then from the outside it looks like a bunch of people who have not eaten for 10 days, only drank and were terribly hungry and would be glad at least a crout of bread. And here you are standing in front of them, holding a basket with freshly baked bread, with perfectly skillfully prepared fish, and gradually throwing it all into the river in front of their eyes, and at the same time you say - “I don’t want to! I didn’t like the color of the bread, the color of my the eyes do not fit, and the fish was caught in the river at all, but I want from the ocean, so I don’t want to! "

Social networks have become an integral part of our life. Initially, they were conceived only as a means of communication for those people who were divorced by fate, but over time they were overgrown with many additional services, due to which direct communication gradually faded into the background. Now it has become fashionable not, but, on the contrary, to remove them. You may also want to support this peaceful protest.

1. Social media is time-consuming. Going in for half an hour to check messages and send gifts in one of the many games, you can become interested in a picture or a link in the feed, get involved in an empty argument, ruin your mood, spend several hours on this and not have time to do really important things. This only suggests that developers do not get their salaries in vain, coming up with new ways to stir up interest in their resource.

2. To learn something truly new and useful from a social network, you have to shovel mountains of funny pictures, aphorisms, advertisements and bearded anecdotes. But even if you come across something worthwhile, there is no guarantee that the author of an interesting article really understands the issue, and is not sure that he is talking complete nonsense. There is no need to talk about general illiteracy in the networks.

3. There is an unspoken rule on social networks that while you like and write comments to other users, you will receive them in response, but if you stop doing this for at least a week, your popularity will plummet. By the way, this good way find out who really cares about communicating with you.

4. By and large, your virtual friends do not care where you were today and what you ate, but your boss may ask what his employee was doing when he took a day off due to illness.

5. Speaking of work, social networks - The best way spoil your reputation in the work collective. Office workers are usually forgiven for frivolous photos in a frank or not too sober way, but a teacher or representative of another serious profession can be fired for the same. Moreover, the employer will definitely check a potential employee through social networks and may refuse him a good position just because he is too socially active and will probably do extraneous things in the workplace.

6. The habit of geotagging (the geographic coordinates of your current location) could one day jeopardize your safety. As already mentioned in paragraph 4, your virtual friends do not care where you are and what you do, but only if there is no suspicious person among them who will start following you on your heels and send messages about how good you are today. looked in this white dress. Okay, if it's just a secret admirer, but what if you're dealing with a mentally ill person?

7. Social networks devalue the concept of "friendship", because they consider friends not only those whom you personally know, but also completely random people from your past, or strangers with whom you have installed one common application. At the same time, you often have nothing to talk about with your real-life friends when you meet, because you already know about all the purchases and events in their life from the network.

8. On a social network, you can become unwitting participants in someone else's social experiment. For example, there are projects dedicated to the so-called virtual pickup. Participants professionally breed girls in intimate photos, and then post all correspondence, personal data and photographs for everyone to see. Other experimenters created a program that can simulate communication with a living person and sent it to meet girls and collect their phone numbers. And you have probably already come across more than once provocations of the so-called trolls, who cheer themselves up by spoiling it for others.

9. Through social networks, you get a distorted picture of the world, because most of the news comes to you through the subjective statements of users who cannot always be called smart people. But at the same time, many inveterate users of social networks are sure that this is the way to get real news, and not the "filtered" news that I publish on news sites.

10. Looking through other people's photos, sooner or later you will feel dissatisfaction with your life. You will begin to think that everyone is regularly vacationing abroad, buying the most expensive designer items and marrying the most best men and women, while you are single and not too wealthy. Believe me, other people are not doing better, they just never write about a marriage in the balance, or loans that had to be taken to pay for another purchase. Remember that many of your virtual friends use other people's photos or brag about other people's things.

11. Sooner or later, you will also want to publish photos and get a lot of positive reviews, but it turns out that everything is not so simple. You will probably be saddened that no one liked the photos of the dish you spent the whole day on, or of your new boyfriend. Moreover, you may not like them too. Have you ever attended any events just because you haven't updated your page for a long time and needed fresh photos?

12. Having a frequently updated account on a social network, you lose the mystery to others. Believe me, if your potential partner cannot find out everything about you in five minutes, you will become even more attractive and interesting for him. But the fact that after the first date you publish your joint photos in the public domain can put an end to the nascent relationship.

13. You won't be able to enjoy a beautiful moment, a date and great food while you are busy taking pictures of everything around you and counting the likes you get.

14. Professional communication in social networks requires financial investments. Here you can find the VIP status of the profile, and paid gifts to friends for their birthday, and investments in numerous games, and payment for mobile Internet, if you want to keep abreast of the latest news all the time. And you probably want a phone that is more expensive, so that the photos will be as good as possible.

15. Your children learn from your example. Think, would you like to see a candid photo of your underage daughter with dozens of obscene comments from strangers on a social network?